Relaxation*Do not neglect relaxation!*
It it a very important process in everyday life and has a great effect on your success in lucid dreaming. Stress seems to be a killer for LD's as it causes a unsettled mind and a lack of concentration on what you really want to achieve. Will and belief is everything when it comes down to it, and when you just don't care anymore your chances of reaching lucidity are next to nil.
I believe a relaxed and calm mind outshines a relaxed body tenfold, so find a method that works for you.
Regulated and slow breathing also seems quite significant. Breathe deep but do not strain or make yourself uncomfortable. Below is what I do during relaxation methods.1. Lie on your back on a flat surface or in bed with your head supported.
2. Lightly Place one hand on your upper chest and the other just below your rib cage on your stomach. This will allow you to feel your diaphragm move as you breathe.
3. Quietly concentrate on your breathing. It may help to turn out the lights, close your eyes, or loosen any constrictive clothing.
4. Breathe in slowly through your nose so that your stomach moves out against your hand. The hand on your chest should remain as still as possible.
5. Briefly pause (1 second).
6. Slightly tighten your stomach muscles, letting them fall inward as you exhale, blowing the air out of your mouth. Again, try to keep the hand on your upper chest as still as possible.
7. Briefly pause before inhaling again.If there's a general guideline I can give you it is to be consistent. I find that once I reach a certain stage of relaxation my body takes over. Even when I am fully conscious of my breathing, it almost feels like I have a slightly delayed or just offset breathing tempo happening behind the scenes. I feel it happening, cant explain it. Its just slightly out of sync with my conscious efforts, and when I align the two my body relaxes much faster.Calming/Quieting Your Mind"
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When you first lay down at night your mind has the tendency to go over everything you did the previous day and everything you need to do tomorrow. Anything your excited about usually sits around up there bothering you all night. This can be very annoying and distracting while trying to either focus or relax. Don't try to kill the thoughts in your head but simply passively observe them for what they are; thoughts.
Some basic tips are as follows:
- Focus on your breathing - This can often calm your mind in itself.
- Literally tell yourself nothing going on in your head matters right now; remind yourself what your true intentions are.
- Sing a favorite song, I find this just distracts me and gets my mind off the day temporarily.
- Try taking 5-10 minutes and just let the thoughts flow. Often trying to fight your thoughts just makes things worse.
I read the following have tried it a few times and it actually works pretty well. It is from an article from eHow.
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(I commonly use this during the later phases of a WILD attempt as a form of motion while relaxing. Instead of placing 'her' on my lap, I shift my perception to the baby's view. Imagine yourself rocking back and forth and the pressure from the arm under you. Your bed turns into the arm, and your pillow is the hand supporting your head. Its just nice for a seamless transition so to speak.)[/B]
*Memorize the points found in the picture below. It follows a very basic pattern so this shouldn't be to hard.*Below is a basic guideline and there is no perfect way to do it. The goal of this is to have a gradual relaxation with a common focus on your body. You should feel relaxed before moving on to the next point.
You don't need to rush through it at first and if you only get to point 15-20 your first time that is perfectly fine. Eventually you will be able to relax extremely fast. Speed comes naturally after conditioning.
If the mind is restless, and you tell it to sit still, it fights. But if you let in move at a comfortable pace, it will be happy. Moving your attention from one point to another (shoulder, arm, wrist, etc.) can be too slow for the restless mind. Speeding up the rate of surveying can have a comfortable effect on the mind.
61 Point RelaxationFocus your attention on each of the points one by one.- Visualize the spot on your body
- Focus your awareness here
- Feel the tension soothing itself
- Imagine a ball of light
Concentrate on the task at hand.- It can be very hard to focus sometimes and you may let your mind wander. This usually means you forget your even doing the exercise and may fall asleep.
- Speed plays a great role in the level of concentration needed to finish. Be sure to go at a comfortable speed. To fast and you wont be able to relax, to slow and its very possible that you will lose your place.
- If you do notice you stopped doing it; start at the last number you remember doing or right from the beginning if you feel so inclined.
Gradually your body should naturally relax. I like to imagine the tension in my body as a fluid and as I breathe out it all slides away.
Point Locations in Order
- Forehead, throat
- Right shoulder, right elbow, right wrist, tip of right thumb, tip of right index finger, tip of right middle finger, tip of right ring finger, tip of right little finger, right wrist, right elbow, right shoulder, throat
- Left shoulder, left elbow, left wrist, tip of left thumb, tip of left index finger, tip of left middle finger, tip of left ring finger, tip of left little finger, left wrist, left elbow, left shoulder
- Throat, space between the breasts, right breast, space between the breasts, left breast, space between the breasts, navel, lower abdomen
- Right hip, right knee, right ankle, tip of the right big toe, tip of the right second toe, tip of the right middle toe, tip of the right fourth toe, tip of the right little toe, right ankle, right knee, right hip, lower abdomen
- Left hip, left knee, left ankle, tip of the left big toe, tip of the left second toe, tip of the left middle toe, tip of the left fourth toe, tip of the left little toe, left ankle, left knee, left hip
- Lower abdomen, navel, space between the breasts, throat, forehead
Muscle Tension Release
*The basic idea is simply to tense muscle groups individually and then release them.*
*You may find it comfortable to go through the sequence only one time or to go through it several times.*- Tense all of the muscles of the face, including forehead, cheeks, mouth, and upper neck. Then release with full awareness. You will notice the relaxation.
- Gently roll the head from side to side, with awareness of the tightening muscles, and the feeling of release.
- Tighten the shoulders, pulling them upwards and forwards. Then release.
- Tense the entire right arm, from the shoulder down through the fingers. Do this without making a fist or lifting your arm off of the floor. Allow your attention to be deep inside the arm, not just on the surface. Then release slowly, with awareness.
- Tense the left arm in the same way, and observe the release.
- Gently tense the muscles of the chest and the abdomen, while continuing to breathe without holding the breath. Then release.
- Tense and release the right hips and the buttocks.
- Tense and release the right leg, down through the feet and toes in the same way that the right arm was tensed and released.
- Tense and release the left hips and buttocks.
- Tense and release the left leg.
- While no longer tensing any muscles, allow your attention to drift back up through the legs, through the abdomen and chest, through the arms, and back to the face.