....Once i've become lucid, i'll immediately sit down cross legged (depending on the stability i might move somewhere comfortable). I'll put my hands in the usual position when i meditate in RL, but not close my eyes (don't do that you might wake up). I un-focus my eyes though, so that i can still see my environment, but not focus on anything in particular. Once i've gotten into position, i'll take in one really big breath, and usually that will automatically calm my body down, enough to eliminate the chance of the dream ending or after 1 or 2 more breaths. Once i've calmed myself down, I'll modify my breathing so that my focus is on the idea of me 'breathing in' the dream. Its difficult to explain the feeling, but its like i'm no longer so much an intruder to the dream, but i've mixed myself with the dream, like i'm just as much a part of the dream as the dirt i'm sitting on. I'll carry this on ranging from 30secs to up to 5mins. The more i 'breath in' the dream, the more stable it becomes and the clarity also increases.
Its not only for when the dream is unstable, often i'll just do it for the sake of it, and its never had a negative effect only ever seems to increase my awareness. ......
[[[[This sounds great!.. for people who are ..[avid experianced lucid dreamers]..but what about the bigger majority of people who are just trying to have their first..second or third lucid dream..
How are they going to remember to do all these things in a lucid dream?]]]